TANTRA - SACRED SEXUALITY

Divine mode sexual love

(Transcription of tapes by the author Barry Long)

The man and the woman have forgotten how to make love physically.
This is the greatest tragedy of all time, as it is the cause of the greatest
unhappiness on Earth. It has continued and worsened slowly so much.
forgotten for many thousands of years, which is now a crucial problem. This
it means that only the individual man or woman has any chance of
start to correct it. There can be no mass solutions. The problem is
too personal and too deep. Each one has to do it for himself or
by herself, or it cannot be done.
The basic unhappiness of women, their perennial discontent, is due to the fact that the
the man can no longer reach her physically. Her emotional excess, her
depressions, their tearful frustrations, even premenstrual tension, and
finally the conditions that lead to a hysterectomy and other problems
Uterine problems are due to the man's sexual failure to release and gather his energies.
more fundamental and finer women when making love.
These beautiful or divine extraordinary energies are hypersensitive and when they
they leave without extraction in the woman, as they are now, degenerate into disorders
emotional or psychological, and in the end, they are the ones that crystallize in
physical abnormalities. The womb gives birth to all things.
The basic unhappiness of man, his perpetual restlessness, is due to forgetting how
making love correctly to the woman, he has lost his divine authority and with
hello the sexual control of himself. His psychic or emotional degeneration is
manifests racially as a sexual obsession. All men without exception.
they are sexual obsessives. Sexual obsession generates a fantasy in man
compulsive sexual behavior, chronic masturbation, even when he can live with one
couple, sexual repression leads to anger, violence, and to the symptom
universal to lose oneself in work and the pursuit of wealth to
compensate for his ineptitude as a true lover. Business and
collecting wealth are covers in both sexes due to incapacity or fear
to love beautifully through the body.
Through the man's neglect to love the woman, the man suffers from
premature ejaculation, guilt, anxiety, self-doubt, impotence, atrophy
sexual, disguising itself as sexual disinterest, sexual abstinence due to fear
repressed by failure, sexual bravado, and lack of true wisdom. All of this he
he inflicts it again on the woman, thus aggravating the basic discontent of
she and her own unease. Every virgin who joins with a man today is
immediately contaminated. His lack of love germinates the seed in her.
racial discontent. She will be disappointed. To be a male human being.
completely integrated requires that man assimilates through his body

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the divine feminine energies that a woman can only unleash for him when
make physical love correctly. But the man has to be sufficient
man, this is, he has to be able to love her enough, love her enough
sufficiently in a divine or selfless manner during the act, to extract
these energies from the deepest center of the woman. This does not depend on the
technique. It requires love, pure love. Being able to love in this way is the
authority that man has lost, and his only true authority over the
woman. The woman, however, will not yield and cannot yield her divine energies to
no man who is not yet the same, that is, who is not entirely
integrated or aligned, it doesn't matter how much she loves him and wants to give him.
Very few men on earth today are themselves, that is to say, they possess the
authority to express and absorb enough love through their bodies
to reach the highest part of the woman, the gap of unhappiness between man
and woman continues to grow.
The man who has developed sexual skill still does not know how to do this.
divine love. Elevated sensations and orgasms are rewarding and give
to him a form of authority, but they are not the love that the woman longs for. The
the love that he gives to the woman or women satisfies them like a good meal, but
Soon she feels hungry again and finally she despises her appetite and herself.
same since she knows she is not being loved.
Together in a relationship, the punishment that the man has to pay for his failure
physical in serving the woman as the personification of love, is emotionality
her tyrannical. Wherever he loves, or tries to love, one day she will shake him.
it will stun her, it will devastate her, the evil spirit will suddenly reveal itself within her,
female demon living of emotion.
Any man who has not yet experienced the hatred of this demon in
the woman has not yet experienced love. She reveals herself when
he is attached and can hardly pull away. Any woman he hasn't seen
still being the demon still has not connected with his love. The demon
The emotion in a woman is hell on earth for a man. This is the
part of her that he cannot handle or understand, because it is the demon of his
own failure to love that comes into life to despise it, to abuse it and
torture him. He is terrified of it. He bluffs and boasts, but
finally, as you grow older in a relationship, the demon inevitably
will conquer him and force him to surrender the last vestige of his masculinity and
authority for something of peace. Then they grow old together, feeling safe
but half dead while leaning on each other in the terrible world of
commitment. As long as the world continues as it is, the devil will never allow
that man forget his fundamental failure of loving the woman correctly.
The woman must be loved. The future of the human race depends on the woman.
beloved sea, because only when the woman is truly loved can she be the
truly a man himself and regain his lost authority. Only then
peace can return to the earth. However, the woman as she is now cannot
to be loved for a long time or forever by the man as he is now.
Together they are trapped in a vicious circle. And yes, if they let themselves be carried away for more time
their own ideas of love, there is no escape for them.

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Love is a terrible mess on this planet. Something has to be done.
urgently. It must begin now, today. And you must do it. In these two
I'm going to tell you how to make physical love again. But first I'm going to ...
tell everything about love and I will give you an understanding of the purpose of
love and your place in love or life on earth. Love without purpose as
you can perceive it in the world around you, it is hopeless. Understand the
love as it is and not as you think you know it or how you imagine it, is the first
lesson in making love. I will be very frank and open and I will describe the act
physical making love in detail using words like 'vagina' and 'penis' and
other terms that lovers use. I will be speaking to you in a very
intimate. I suggest you play the tapes over and over again every time you have
new experiences in love. You can't learn and make divine love in
these tapes. You must absorb it so that it becomes part of you, part of your
understanding. However, verify each piece of information with your own
experience, listen to the sound of your inner truth, the echo of knowledge that
Once you had. The deepest and truest part of you knows everything.

As far as I'm concerned, there is no reason why a child cannot hear.

these tapes. In fact, I would like every boy or girl in their adolescence to
listen repeatedly while they grow, especially the young. The only
the problem is that when a child or teenager asks intelligent questions
after hearing the tapes there should be an intelligent adult around to
will answer honestly and authentically from a place of love and
understanding, out of the vicious circle. I trust in it.

The main problem in making love is the man's premature ejaculation. And the
woman, as I will explain later, contributes to this unexpectedly. The
premature ejaculation is due to the emotion caused by excitement and anticipation
on the part of both. This emotion, particularly in men, is there for a long time.
before the love game or the physical act begins.
In man, there is a continuous presexual excitation, or a level of aggression.
increased excitement, due to their normal sexual fantasizing or obsession
sexual. Through joking and conversations about sex with another man,
readings on sex, malicious allusions to sex in mixed companies, thinking
in sex, looking at women in public and making lustful connections
conscious and habitually unconscious, man maintains relatively high
basic aggression level or his sexual emotion. If you imagine a man
like a sexual thermometer will normally be registering about 25 degrees of
sexual emotion due to his sexual obsession, while the woman is
around 5 degrees. The woman is basically less aggressive than the
man because she is not normally obsessed with sex. Like
consequently, aside from his numerous fixations and inhibitions, man is
ready for sex at any time, while the woman is not. So that she
To want to make love, one needs to raise their basic sexual temperature.
In the game of love before getting together, flirting, touching, kissing, and caressing
from the breasts and genitals elevate sexual temperature or the emotion for both
parts. This, added to the man's normally elevated level of stimulation due to

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his sexual obsession makes him fantasize much more intensely than she does. For
So, again, her sexual temperature rises at a much higher speed.
By the time he is about to enter it, he is burning out.
ninety-nine degrees, and rising quickly with expectation and impatience.
She is at her comfortable and pleasant seventy degrees, and also rising.
Sometimes she just has to open her legs: the final fantastic image made
and he ejaculates, or his penis touches it or simply penetrates the lips of the vagina and he
run, the righteous manages to enter the vagina and in seconds his
sexual temperature drops from a feverish hundred and something to zero while
selfishly ejaculates outside in a state of coldness and disinterest
lack of desires.
The woman is love, thank God. Love is her true nature underneath.
of all emotion, notions, and fixations. If she loves him, or if she alone loves, she can
to endure sexual disappointment. The woman at all levels represents the mother,
the true feminine archetype, Mother Earth, in which all of us find ourselves
we delight and find our pleasure, even if she is just a bottle of
whiskey made from grains of earth and water. Man, just as he is now, is like
a boy in front of her boundless love, the true woman that every woman knows
what is beneath her neuroses. In her love, she can forgive him for
to come, disabling her own mechanism of desire, to take her mundane
anxiety expressed in her orgasm and welcoming it inside her, huddled and
new in its brief moment of peace.
For the woman, the satisfaction of her love is to take from him everything that is within her.
he can give, while in return he offers each piece of herself in
a complete and sweet delivery of love. But when the man leaves
he does not love her enough to give himself completely to her. He did not have
time. Therefore, she could not give him all the love she had to give. Upon arriving
he left, he abandoned her. Because of this, he is a little less of a man, she is a little
less herself, and against the escalation of the racial struggle between man and
woman to join are a little more apart. The woman when she loves can
dissolve within itself most of the frustrations caused by the
premature ejaculation of the man. Still, any residual emotion from it is
a part of the demon returns that will crucify him tomorrow. But his love does not.
it can fully compensate for the unmet need to be relieved of her
finer energies, to express or release in man the act of love his
intrinsic feminine beauty, the divine fragrance that continuously unfolds
in every woman and that lies behind every man's need for her. The pain of
having to bear this unnecessary burden due to man's negligence is the
profound grievance that sustains the punishing outbursts of anger and fury
emotional of the demon.
A man who arrives prematurely has temporarily lost his power of
He has lost himself, therefore he cannot take complete delivery.
of the woman and that's why he is without true authority. He knows it and is ashamed.
of it. The only valid authority that a man can have over a woman is to
through love, and that authority will be granted to her when he demonstrates it to her
enough love to accept her and take her total surrender. SHE CAN ONLY GIVE
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man over woman in the world for the last thousands of years has been
part of the ugly job of paying her for his own weakness - the
abdication of her true authority - The tragic division between her and her lover
it continues from generation to generation, because man has forgotten about himself
same, has forgotten how to love, and the woman who can be so generous and munificent
as authentically loving she cannot give herself, she cannot reach her
natural satisfaction without him. The reason why women do not fantasize about sex
As much as the man is, it is because sex is not so much a gratification for her.
For women, sex is more about love, and love cannot be fantasized unlike
of sex. To love is to keep the silent image of the beloved in consciousness. The
one's fantasy begins like an erotic image; sexuality and the stores of
Sex takes possession of love. For man, sex can also be love.
But because he invariably uses it to ejaculate as a means of
release his repressed psychic aggression, his sexual emotion, contains a lot
self-gratification and selfishness; he uses the woman. If he could join her without arriving,
I would begin to love her correctly or for who she is.
Ejaculation, as it pertains to the man, normally marks the end of
act. But for the woman, even if he has brought her to orgasm, he still has not
gathered the finer energies of her above the orgasm. The orgasm of
she will release or disperse her immediate sexual emotion, but the divine energies
what remains uncollected will ultimately degenerate into emotional demand and
discontent. Every emotion in a woman is the demand or the cry to be loved
truly and not to be used as a sexual spittoon. At the beginning of the
time, when the world had just begun, the state of man and of the
the woman was very different from what she is today. When I say this, you must not confuse
the beginning of time and the world with the beginning of the universe or the earth. Leave
Let me explain it to you. The earth is not the world; man built the world. The
the beginning of time and the world is relatively recent, about twelve thousand years ago.
years when man first identified time with physical death. Before
at this time there only existed the past that extended backwards, until the
first form of life on Earth. Time is not past; time
provides the sense of tomorrow or continuity upon which it is built
world. Before life on earth, there was not only no time, but also
past - only the present, the presence, or the no-time. Time is not a
process of things that are established better, that is progress. Time is a
process of things that are established gradually worse. Things have gone
much worse for the man and the woman or their love since they began to
slipping imperceptibly into time or into the self-forgetfulness around the
10,000 B.C. You could say this sounds like a myth. It is a myth but not a
myth as a fable or a fiction. What I am going to describe to you now is the truth.
The myth, the true myth, is the only means we have left to communicate the
truth, the original state of man and woman on earth. Please
remain receptive and silent while you can suspend your critical mind and
listen while I sketch for you the myth or the truth of man and woman, you
your original state that you are striving to reach by living and loving in
the weather today.
Originally, around twelve thousand years ago, the individual bodies of the

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men and women were permanently surrounded by a magnificent
golden orb or halo. This, radiating from the solar plexus, extended visibly
far above the head inside the earth and out beyond the
scope of the extended members. The orb of the woman was of a golden color
slightly deeper than that of man, but both had the same
beautiful, sublime and dazzling quality. The woman was pure love, the pole
serene passive of human spiritual love on earth. Man the pole
active positive, it was also love, but not pure love in the same sense. He was
the love of pure authority, the masculine principle, which was the guardian of love,
or of the woman, or of the Earth. His love or her love was responsible for maintaining
the divine quality, golden of the love between them. The glow of their halos reflected
at all times the intensity and purity of that love. His act of physical love
it was ecstatic. The divine energy generated was so powerful that after creating
the love their bodies or halos ignited with incredible splendor. This
self-luminous irradiation of the spirit or love created in each one by the union
physics was the manifestation of her divinity on earth. Man and woman at
in the beginning of time there were gods, and they held the consciousness and presence of
his divinity, his non-temporality, making divine physical love.
The halo or golden energy was their means of communication, together or apart.
Its reach went beyond its visible outline, and through it, each one was
in an unbroken contact with the other, in silence and stillness - this is
in the mutual awareness of pure love -. Over time, when one of the two
halos needed to regenerate, the man and the woman were attracted to each other, they made the
love as the only physical poles of consciousness on earth and they were illuminated
and they regenerated again. He regenerated her love while she
he was regenerating love and his authority. The communication between them was so
it was complete that there was no need to speak. Speaking developed over time;
in men and women, who lose themselves in the time given to
other things, to build the world, began to forget to love - that is, they forgot
how to be themselves all the time. The result was that they failed to make the
physical love, divine. Their halos or consciousness lost the golden connection and
They had to start talking through the gap that had developed between them.
Then, through speech, misunderstandings and emotion appeared.
As time or the lack of love increasingly invaded the body of the man and of the
woman, speech replaced the immediacy and fullness of love and vocabulary
it grew and grew. Instead of 'being' in love, they said, 'I love you', and many others
verbal substitutes for love. Some individuals retained the intensity of
hello more time than others, but with time or the past increasing in each
one, things got inexorably worse.

Several thousand years later, most men and women had

forgotten how to love and how to make love. Nevertheless, even though they performed
apparently the same physical act, could not release or generate divine energy
and personify in themselves the living spirit or the presence of love, the no-
time.
The bodies of the man and the woman were no longer aligned in love but
in time and emotion. Instead of making pure love, they made love

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demanding, emotional. And instead of producing spiritually enlightened children,
they produced them emotionally dependent.
The woman, who was once pure love, was now confused and discontent.
permanently. The man, having lost his authority, was now impatient.
with her and, trying to find a substitute for her authority, he became busy and
perpetually restless. Furthermore, lacking the authority to control it,
used his superior physical and economic strength to force her into a social position
inferior, particularly exploiting the love of her youth. This enraged her so much
what the demon spawned, who while time continued would never forget or
I would forgive his injustice and the corruption of love. The human race, the
the race through time had begun.
Several men and women deliberately abstained from making love.
physically, they managed to retain a partial ability to love divinely
within themselves. These were the mystics, saints, and ascetics of all the
nations. They turned their attention inward and loved the divine energies in
their own bodies.
Refusing to join with other bodies, which were now being filled with time and the
emotion in the form of dissatisfaction and restlessness, the mystics remained to themselves
relatively pure. However, in relation to fullness and richness of
Its original irradiation, hers was a pale and skewed form of purity.
Denying the earthly need for union with the pole or opposite sex, the alternative
mystical was fundamentally exclusive, selfish, and unnatural, because of its
idealism and haughty devotion. As a consequence, it produced human beings
partially integrated and only partially divine. Things were unequivocally
worse. The result was reflected in the halos and orbs of these men and women
mystics. Their halos had gradually shrunk in size and illumination to
a small circle of light around the head. You will see it represented today
in old paintings and icons, particularly of Christian saints. These
shrinkings, miniature halos only show how restricted it had been
turned back in time the idea of the man of love on earth or of earthly love.
Excluding all of his or her body from the divine union with the opposite sex
about the earth, and basing love only on the abstraction of the mind, the
the halo was reduced to cover only the head, or at most the upper part of the
body. It could be argued that mystics and saints, due to the outbreak of
time, they had no choice but to follow the path of celibacy. At least of
they managed to keep something of pure and divine love over the
land, until the mystical holiness itself almost disappeared under the weight of the
time. But really the option they chose, not making love, or their
interpretation of that impulse was a great tragedy for the human race. The
mystics and saints would only have saved the day, or the world, if they had acted
differently or more generously.
Despite their divine love, celibate saints, like the rest of humanity,
Being sunk by time, they had really forgotten how to make love.
physical and they did not realize it. And they were very emotional about love.
They had made a virtue of their forgetfulness. Perplexed and burdened with guilt for the power
from their own relentless passions, most of the Christian saints
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erroneous. The truth is that it was them who did not love enough - not
they loved their neighbor with enough golden intensity to immerse themselves in the
divine mind with their own bodies through copulation and remember as such
making love on the ground to provide guidance or some kind of inspired example.
That was too much self-sacrifice. That's why, like the crowd that shouted,
Crucify him! They also condemned the love that they feared and did not understand.
The saints remained apart from humanity. They were compassionate and
mindful of the superficial sufferings of humanity, poverty,
disease and violence, but they always evaded the central problem of love
physical, the cause of the greatest unhappiness on earth, including that of the saints
same.
Even Jesus Christ, if we believe his interpreters, completely avoided the problem.
and did not leave a word of authentic guidance for humanity, whose constant
concern, now and then, is about trying to make physical love. The Messiah, for
its evident omission of sexuality in its teachings has a lot to
answerer, right? If you believe in their interpreters. The saints kept their
clean hands from the authentic filth of love where men and women
They usually have to live. God is enough!, they said. Is that true if not
Are you a saint? Is that true for you? Or do you want to make love and perhaps feel
something divine and pure in it, that you know must be there and must be found.
The saints abandoned us; they abandoned this blessed planet Earth. They
they opted out of the reality of love on earth and made their love somewhere
another place where there is no need for love, love is needed here for another
side is the source of love. If you want to escape to God in your love and leave behind
to the man and to the woman, then God helps you. You will have to return to do
amendments and see the error of your love as all saints must do in the
time.
The man and the woman need this love, this God of love, in the most profound.
from here on earth and not in any other place where everything is prepared and they
do not be. And only you and I can make that love, that God, here. It is this lack of
love, or the absence of God among us that has brought the world today to the brink of
annihilation by their own hands. Moreover, these saints, men and women
distanced from this world, they burdened humanity with their own sins
horrible, that making love was sinful, a sin for which they would burn in hell
hell. How many trillions of innocent boys and girls, of men and women
they have suffered hell on earth from sexual guilt, and they still suffer due to
the lack of courage of all the saints to love? "God made me celibate" - he prayed
Saint Augustine. Why didn't he ask God to show him why he loved so much?
woman who could not stay away from her? Instead of asking for an ideal
intellectual who was not true? Where did the idea come from that, in any case,
Should he be celibate? Without a doubt like some other tortured saint or priest. That's why
the saints, mystics and ascetics of all nations abandoned the poor
mass of human beings who were fighting against time, and
they are still, to make love or peace with one another.
Did a saint ever tell you how to make love, which is the origin of everything.
love over the earth, even the love of God? Have we not all been born,
included the saints, of that act of love? Is it fair to ignore the physical feeling?

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sweeter and more natural than what two human beings can produce together on earth
as a signifier of a possible reality? The saints told us to love
to God, which no one on earth can make possible through an act of will.
How can you love if you do not love? What kind of exhortation is that? What would you say?
If I told you: 'Feel hungry!' when you are not hungry? Or maybe someone has told you
that you will love everyone. How can you love everyone? Do you really love everyone?
Can you do it? Are they all so lovable? Do you really love your enemies?
Did you tell your children today, not last Christmas, to love the people who
Will they hit them or punch them? When someone crosses you today, see if
You love him. Let's be honest, honest with ourselves. We would love everyone
world, but could we just start with our partner? Maybe you'll say that
this is the task, to love everyone despite the natural non-loving tendencies
One. There is no task, no obligation or penalty in love. To try to love
as a task is to follow the path away from this world, from guilt and the
self shame. That's not how to start loving. You start to love
making love, which is what you and everyone else desires in any way about
the earth. But you must learn to make love correctly, without self-indulgence,
without seeking emotional satisfaction and self-gratification. After you have
learned to make true physical love and have started to restore your halo
golden, you will then discover how to love your neighbor, your enemies, God and
yourself.

Few women have integrated the upper half of the body, above the
waist, with the lower half below the waist. The upper half, the torso, where
the breasts and the solar plexus are located, vibrating with a very fine energy of
love. This is the finest love in the body. It provides milk to the baby and
retains what is love in the bosom without tint of sexuality. This love is felt in
like the yearning for the unattainable, the longing for purity and beauty
idealist. It is the drive behind the whole idea of Platonic love. This
the upper body is the upper pole of love.
The lower pole of love below the waist focuses on the genitals, but
the energy of this love is continuously present, although imperceptible
usually, in the lower back, at the base of the spine, thighs and
legs. If you stay very still, you will ultimately isolate the different sensation of this
energy. When it is perceived as such, without emotional or sexual associations,
this lower energy of love feels just as pure as the highest love
high, just like a more tangible feeling and with more grain. But that doesn't
takes away merit from its essence and essential beauty, because this energy, rising through the
legs from the very earth, is pure vitality or vital force before the
emotion like sexuality or feeling has entered into her.
The function of man, as the masculine principle, is to unify these two.
polarities of love in women, so that her entire system flows free and
satisfactorily with divine love. By this union of the upper division and
lower part of the human body, that is, the ideal and the earthly, the unattainable and the
achievable, the only current of divine love, or the golden energy is produced
radiant. When this is fully achieved, the woman reunites with her
true being - physically, psychologically, and spiritually. Their discontent is

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fades and is no longer dependent on her work, art, motherhood, or any other.
external activity, to give oneself a sense of satisfaction or purpose. She can
to be dedicated to those occupations, but will no longer be attached to them like a
need. All of a woman's sexual motivation is to make the divine connection to
through man. His desire to have children is secondary and a substitute for what
another. Because the divine connection is very rarely made, no woman today
she is herself. She mostly stays in the romantic upper half of her
body, longing for the unattainable and periodically occupying
promiscuously the lower half in sex, in a futile effort to make the
connection.
But she evades it. Therefore, she remains virtually divided within herself, two
people, until finally apart from sex due to disillusionment or old age, lives
a form of half a life of idealized love within its upper half. The
Feminine frigidity is due to a lack of unity of love in her own body.
It also helps cause impotence in men, or their inability to
achieve the erection. As we proceed, it will become clearer how to overcome these
problems.

So that the man and woman of today can make love beautifully and divinely.
requires each one to induce a fundamental change in the penis or vagina.
Both the penis and the vagina, or, more specifically, that part of the brain
those that control them must be consciously released from the emotion or from the
unconsciousness of the past, that is, of all habits, misconceptions and
ignorances gained, about making love through past experience.
Experience is the past. We can learn anything from experience.
except how to make love. Love does not come from practice or experience. The
love is. The body does not need to learn how to make love; it makes love
natural form. What we learn from the experience of making love is not like
making love but rather how to take care of ourselves, how to project ourselves and
protect ourselves cleverly and safely at the same time. This
of course it is commitment; you cannot protect yourself, contain yourself in
anyway, and make love. But this is how everyone today makes the
love. Experience, the past, has taught us to be cautious, not to give everything of
we ourselves could lose something, we could hurt ourselves, so
we all play safe. Fear is abundant. And in any case, no longer
We would know how to give everything when making love; we have also forgotten that.
how often do people feel the breathtaking urge to give love
Everything, wanting to open up by tearing themselves apart, and yet they cannot?
You must have felt that way at some point. Would you be willing to give everything to your
lover now, at this moment, if you had the chance? The answer is no.
You have the opportunity to do it every time you make love, and you still haven't.
Have you fixed it, or not? Making love today is a commitment, the acceptance of it
better than can be expected or done in the circumstances. And that produces, to the
More, for lovers the best feeling that can be expected from commitment.
satisfaction, a poor substitute indeed for the continuous and glorious feeling
of physical love made and given without self-consideration, without commitment, without
to hold back, without protecting oneself while expressing oneself. This feeling

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drug of satisfaction that puts everyone to sleep after doing the
love is personified in the world, by the god, made by man, of love:
the orgasm. The man is a madman of the orgasm. And the woman, the goddess of love
same, infected and inflamed by male madness, has begun to worship the
false god.
As if arriving were a sign of love! Any animal could be made for
arrive without any sign of love, but you cannot make love without love. For
let's stop deceiving ourselves or being deceived for longer.
If you want an orgasm, go and masturbate. If you want to love, keep listening.
The arrival of man, before he has made enough love to gather the
divine energies of the woman, it is a gluttony without love. The arrival in the woman is
easy and natural, sweet and convenient, if only man and experience of
self-protection of her would give her the opportunity to be natural and arrive from
natural form.
But man, through his selfishness over the years and innocence
from the woman, has taught her, deceiving her to pursue orgasm
diverting his attention from the love that he cannot give him. If you are pursuing a
orgasm, you cannot be aware of the feeling of love. If you are a man
What are you trying to wait for an orgasm, you can't be aware of it either
love. If you are a woman and you believe that orgasm is important when making love and
it seems that you don't have any, you will feel depraved, guilty, and you won't be able to
to know the feeling of love. Or, as a woman, you could give up trying to
finding love by turning your back on the act of love, as many do
women, and once again you will lose the wonder and the glory of love and of yourself.
When the woman has already learned not to try to make love, when she no longer ...
feels attracted or deceived by the orgasm, and refuses to copulate with a penis
emotional, when it is pure enough to be present like her
same in the act of love, without any thought in the head, will have a
natural and effortless orgasm. She will not have to try then. He will happen
beautifully and deliciously through the power of love, the power of the loving penis
deep inside her. Today she can actually have an orgasm and
just feel it. The ability to feel, the awareness of love is beyond your
vagina. It is so loaded with the past, tension, and emotions that its awareness
it cannot fully reach down there, especially up in the middle
superior near the cervix. She has been virtually desensitized there, and that
It worsens with each generation.
Indeed, the woman has a more pleasant feeling in the lower part of the
vagina that in the upper part. Because the man can no longer reach the part
deeper in the vagina in love, near the spiritual garden where the goddess
true resides, and stay there long enough and with the authority
enough to do what it is supposed to do, he has virtually brought the
sensation and her orgasm down towards the front of the vagina. He has
concentrated her awareness around the clitoris that is near the
output. He has done this in two ways: persistent and premature ejaculation
immediately after entering and persistently stimulating the clitoris with
his fingers to compensate for the orgasm that she does not have. He has done
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love. She knows that it is not love but, what else can she do? What else
What's up?
Furthermore, due to the man's failure to love her properly, she sometimes
She masturbates with her clitoris as he taught her. She wouldn't do this if she were loved.
She does not have the same compulsion to masturbate as he does to relieve his
sexual assault. She became accustomed to it through him.
Only the penis and not the fingers or any other resource can love the woman. Only
the living penis in the man's body was designed to serve it. Only the penis -
a disinterested, passionate, patient, and loving penis can return to its
place to orgasm where it should be, where it happens naturally, or not
It happens, without any disturbing emotion, since the woman knows by the
feeling and the consciousness in her vagina, that she is being loved.
The orgasm is an ending, an emotional ending. The act of love has no end. The
true lovers continue making love until finally, perhaps
hours later, the couple separates, to make love hours later, or the next day
next, or the next, or the next... without the man having to ejaculate
necessarily.
The orgasm is part of the act of love. But that is truly beneath.
from the beauty and purpose of this, it will duly happen to both of them, if the
they are present enough and busy just making love.
Most women's experiences when making love are filled with
frustrations. Most of men's experience consists of the
excitement with the prospect of ejaculation. Among the underlying fears of
her reservations and hopes based on past experience, and the excitement
dancer of him, also based on the past, there are very few opportunities for
to create a true love between the two in the now or the present. It will happen.
more excitement than love.
Trying to repeat a good sexual experience, like reaching orgasm, we
we make them expectant or emotional. And trying to avoid the repetition of a
bad experience, we become emotionally cautious. In neither of the
In some cases, we can make love.
And the amazing truth that we do not understand is that the emotion produced in the
what is supposed to be making love will bloom in us in five minutes, hours
or days, and will cause an attack of depression, particularly in women. In the
Man, the movement will manifest as irritability, anger, or aggressive behavior, and
he will probably release it later by masturbating.

The fundamental change in the penis and in the vagina that is necessary today to make
Love must be beautifully and divinely enacted by either man or woman.
learning to become aware, that is, to remain psychologically and then
spiritually present during the act of love and the preliminaries. Today, due to
the massive accumulation of the past and unconsciousness in their bodies, the man and the
women make love especially in a state of sleep, unconscious. What
What happens is that the emotions that arise from their sexual love excite the
emotions. These emotions, the accumulated past experience of the person of
sexual desire or longing draws their attention or consciousness back to the past
like images or fantasy shapes. So, being immersed in that

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in the past, they cut themselves out as conscious beings of the love that their bodies
they are doing in the present. Psychologically they are absent from the event, already
they are not present, not really with their partner. They have drifted away, to their
own world. You must have observed this in your loving act - possibly
in yourself, but particularly in your partner. In these moments when you have
consciously present while making love, and everyone is occasionally
at some point, you may have noticed that your lover has fainted in a way
personal euphoria. They are not with you making love, here, now. They are
clearly absent from the present where you are. They have become
self-contained. It is not unlikely that when talking to someone you suddenly perceive
that is not listening to you, is no longer with you. They are thousands of miles away thinking.
in something else. In short, your lover has left you - just like that as if in the
cold. Thus, you, instead of staying out there making love, you
try as fast as you can to return to your own state of sleep
personal, to lose yourself also in your emotional past. Do this,
you will notice, through imagination, using sexual or erotic imagination, the
which again excites the emotions. And you entirely sail in the land of
daydream. Instead of two being together in a conscious physical union, which is the
the purpose of making love, you are now set apart in dream worlds. The act
of love is self-oriented, self-indulgent, and self-gratifying. Both of you have
lending the vagina or the penis of the other to make love with your own
emotions, your own past.
In such an isolated yet normal encounter, there is no conscious union, without time,
Without the masculine and feminine principle, there is no realization of consciousness or love.
same, there is no union of the two only poles of divinity on earth in the
unique, ineffable, divine presence, realized as your own reality, the spirit
sublime and selfless of love and life. Because it becomes more emotion or
Ego is what love is, and because the emotion or the ego isolates, such an act of love pushes
gradually sets the couple apart. They become sexually tired of each other and the
magic fades away. The act of love becomes habitual, an obligation or a
emotional release, an outburst of anger is not unlikely, and the disagreement,
discontent and unrest is increasing.
The interaction of the penis and the vagina generates love. This love is the most
intensely joyful in the human body. However, the intensity of pleasure
in love is severely reduced by the existence of emotion or past in the
genitals. The more emotion or past there is, the more numb and distant
It is the feeling or love of the person and their perception of the meaning of love.
Since today every penis and vagina is more or less infested with emotion
or the past, no one suspects that the delightful bodily sensation usually
felt in the act of love is already twisted and muted. Hence, that no one is
to seek an essence that can be naturally attained, which is available to
every man or woman who can free the penis and the vagina from the past and be for
as much aware of the divine presence or conscious, in the loving act.
I am striving to lead you, and I hope to your partner, towards this
extraordinary original human state of being and understanding. That's why I'm going to
to say a few more words about his feeling and perception.

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A penis and a vagina that free themselves from emotion or the past begin to
making an ecstatic love together. The sensation and perception are so heightened,
that at first one may feel the possibility of losing consciousness due to
that pleasure seems almost unbearable. As the process continues, one becomes
return aware of being completely present as the consciousness of love
divine that is made. There are no limits to the breadth of joy and being and to the
immediacy of the spirit that knows it is the union of both and of oneself in
the divine presence.
And because it is only love and not emotion or imagination that is being done, and
like love, unlike emotion or orgasm, has no end, the same
spiritual and physical delight is present in the successive acts of love together. In
in other words, the act of love does not vary; it only has ups and no downs,
no states of mind, no confusions, no personal emotional disasters or
associates. It improves and improves, more and more pure, more divine and more real, more
more aware, more present, more astounding and wonderful in its perception
sublime of love, divinity, and eternal purpose. But, as you will appreciate, this does not
It happens easily. A lot of emotional and intellectual death must occur. It
It takes a lot of hard work and dedication with yourself and together. But the point is that
it can be done.
As we continue to delve into the practicalities of making love, I want to
to remind you that the past is emotion, that when your words or feelings
they come from the past, from a moment before now, you are being emotional.
You are not sincere, you are not yourself, so you cannot be or make love.
Emotion, in fact, is the substance of all sexual desire you have ever had.
has been present since your adolescence and has lodged and accumulated in your genitals
or that part of the brain that controls them. They accumulate there like a
unexpected tension. In women, this tension manifests as a subtle
tension or constriction in the vagina, in men as a hardening of the penis,
expressing itself as involuntary erections during the day or night. In both
this genital tension causes practically all the restlessness, heaviness and
discontent. An emotional vagina, which is all vagina until it is not made
without emotions or without a past loving her beautifully and without desires, it is
imperceptibly rigid, muscular, expectant, self-protecting,
closely receptive and tense. A vagina that has been used by numerous
emotional penises start to react like penises themselves, becoming hard.
ambitious, and predatory. She focuses on the orgasm, not on love.
as it becomes free from the emotion of a penis that develops in
love and awareness, the vagina becomes accommodating, tender, giving, simple, easy,
not demanding and calm.
The female orgasm of love is essentially passive and innocent. Learn its
bad habits of the masculine. The penis is the guru or teacher of the vagina for it
good or bad. During penetration, a vagina that has become hungry
for a wrong penis, it generates very little awareness of love for the woman herself,
because the consciousness or pleasure generated is based on a satisfaction
temporal, emotional. This causes her a deep inner unhappiness. The
whether she is promiscuous or not, which is just a desperate search for love,
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previously entered or informed him. The contact with a purified penis of the
emotion, or that has started to purify itself, begins to purify the process in the
vagina. Even today a virgin vagina is relatively tight with a past
personal or emotion. This comes from emotional or sexual imaginations
and related experience, which may include masturbation and fondling
male. Here, also, as soon as the virgin is pleasantly
penetrated by the penis - that is, when the pain of entry keeps her
temporarily in the present ceases - will use this pleasant sensation to
to dream of those old imaginations and emotions and fail to remain
with the wonder of love made by her vagina in the present. The basic tension
from the virgin vagina, however it is due to the ignorance of love. Once,
when time and the human race were young, every virgin woman understood
the love because she was love. There was no ignorance of love in her consciousness anymore
that there was no sensation in her vagina. Her lack of physical experience did not cause
tension because I understood love before having done it, something that does not
we can conceive today. She was free from the emotional ignorance of the
unreal imaginations of love to which all virgins surrender today.
Today, virgins automatically speculate or fantasize about love because
they no longer understand love or themselves. Nor have there been any teachers,
authentic gurus, about the earth that speaks to them and instructs them before they
they receive erroneous impressions through physical experience. Without understanding
from love, the virgins begin to imagine what physical love is and that generates
vaginal emotion, tension or hysteria. Today, with so much racial past or time in the
human body, the girl's vagina is already potentially emotional in the
birth. After puberty, when the virgin vagina is penetrated,
informed or energized by an emotional penis, the emotional potential of the
the girl updates herself, and then she follows the predictable and usual problems
between her and the man. In love without emotion, there are no problems of love between
man and woman.
You must understand the penis and the vagina spiritually. Both are organs
spiritual and together they are the means of all love on Earth. If love is
God - if love is our divinity or the excellence of life - then the penis
and the vagina are the means of that excellence. Every man and woman, each
perception of love and beauty on earth arises from the union of the penis and the
vagina. Homosexual love, like all love, is an attempt to return to the state
divine where the masculine and feminine principles are united, the state of union
that transcends individuals and personal love.
The penis is the most refined perceptive organ and instrument in the male body.
It has knowledge and self-awareness. It is the positive, active organ of
love on the earth. Knows exactly how to make love and what to do inside
from the vagina. The man has to learn to be his penis during the act; to
Making love properly requires surrendering to your greatest intelligence.
In the present, man forces his lower emotional intelligence, obsessed.
with sex, about it, with the result that the penis cannot do the job
what is supposed to be.

However, occasionally, in a normal coupling the consciousness of the penis

you can take possession and the act of love is surprisingly good and

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true, but that is the exception. Most of the time the act of love
varies from satisfactory to mediocre through a non-event or disaster, due to
that the penis is used as an instrument of gratification due to obsession
sexual or the emotional aggression of the man and the woman's self-forgetfulness.
The vaginal cavity represents the void in the woman, her eternal racial longing to be.
filled with love. The penis remains the only love that can fill it, and
Until the penis is not there, the man and the woman cannot be happy.
pen inside the vagina symbolizes the filling of the enormous gap that has been
developed in the time between the two sexes - the gap that the world created and to
through which the world continues to come into birth. The vaginal canal to the
existence is then sealed; the cavity and its mass loss have been found
one another and they are complete. Existence as the search for union by
the wandering male and female is no longer necessary. But life as
birth and death continues; even in union the penis and the vagina are
sentenced to separate, above the point of union is the womb - the womb and the
will of creation. The womb or will is the source of existence and not
will allow man and woman to rest a long time together on the face
from the earth. The womb or will can never be filled in peace as can the
vagina, because the uterus demands birth and existence, not rest. That's why,
even as man and woman, the penis and the vagina, find rest and
mutual termination, the uterus suckles the seeds of life into itself - and
another absent part inquires, another penis or vagina, is born.
The penis is only happy when it is erect inside the woman's vaginal cavity.
When erect in the vacuum of space outside the vagina, the penis is
impatient, excitable, and emotional. In this unnatural state, it is naturally
considered by society as obscene and often by both sexes as
threatening. This is because the erect penis outside of its natural vaginal home is
a projection of aggressive emotion or imagination, and for any
man such an erection is demanding and uncomfortable. He will frequently have to
masturbating to free it from its lonely and out-of-place existence. If the
the basic nature of the woman is love, what has happened to her? why
Why is she often so confused and unloving? How does she contribute?
exactly to the premature ejaculation of your lover? And to his impotence, to his
inability to achieve an erection? Because she does that too.
For millennia, man with his penis has gradually shaped woman as
he sexually. He has induced in her a sexual emotionality like the
masculine, an outsider sexual personality, which she can no longer distinguish from
yours. Instead of maintaining the principle of feminine love, negative, passive,
serene and pure, has taken on, under his sexual tutelage, a partial instance
masculine, active, positive, completely opposite to its true nature.
Below she remains a pure woman, pure love - if she can reach down there to
his true self - but in his superficial sexual projections it is now part
masculine. One result of this is that in their leadership to make love their
male emotionality gets excited like his. The immediate effect on her
it's despicable, but on him it is electric. As soon as the penis makes
contact with your body, these highly charged masculine vibrations are
they rush from her to him like a wave of excitement and he ejaculates

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prematurely. The other male problem, impotence - being unable to have
an erection - is caused by a lack of love or awareness on the part of both
the woman like the man. Both are to blame. Behind this, there is a fact
crucial to remember: the penis becomes erect either due to excitement or love. Without excitement or
love will not become erect. This often happens when couples
they physically bore each other and have relationships out of a sense of duty. If
there is no emotional impulse such as love, awareness, between them in that
At the moment, the man will not be able to have an erection. But if he has an impulse.
Emotional even if there is no love, will not have problems achieving an erection. A
emotional penis does not need love to have sex, as every woman knows, but
This will probably be a unilateral matter.
The penis becomes erect emotionally to gratify itself, to release
the sexual desire, caged or the aggression that arises from the imaginative obsession of the
man with sex. If the woman can put herself in the same mental condition, and
she can due to her artificial male side, they will be able to gratify themselves
mutually. But it will not be love. Impotence does not exist in the sense of
sign of deterioration or male deficiency. Many healthy young men suffer from
impotence.
It is not psychological in the way doctors explain it either. The
impotence is caused only by a lack of emotion or love. That is why when
a man grows old and life has struck part of his emotional excitement
outside of it, and due to the fact that by then the lack of love is very frequent in
your body or that of the woman in the act of love, it is more likely to be
unable to have an erection. Impotence, or non-erection, is the natural state.
out of the vagina. It is the sexual, emotional aggression that forces a
erection outside of the vagina. A penis that only responds to love has only
a full erection inside the vagina or just before entering it. This is
so a loving penis achieves a pure erection to perform the task
for the one who was created - to make love. And that one is made inside the vagina,
not outside of some imagined woman, or excitement or induced condition
mentally. A loving vagina has no difficulty accepting a flaccid penis,
complete, loving, that will immediately become firm and authoritative
erect for the purpose of loving. However - and this may be important for
the man who is trying to purify himself - a pure and loving penis not
is it possible to achieve an erection if there is no love, or if love is insufficient, in
the woman's vagina at that moment; that is to say, if she is dreaming,
emotionally distracted or sexually demanding. Such a man does not use the
imagination as other men do. The loving man finds
sufficient stimulation in the moment, in the present, with the woman he is with.
The purity of love is beyond the need for imagined images and of
devices that require emotional sex.

The woman has learned to make love from men who do not know how to do it.
love. The result is chaos and confusion. Since the beginning of time it has been
manipulated and animated to feel that the finest expression of his love is
to please him sexually. The truth is the opposite: the finest expression of
Love is for the man to sexually please her. Only he can do this.

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when I can forget her worry with the orgasm and be sufficient
present in love or altruism to gather and receive the divine energies of
her, his finest expression of love. In teaching her to please him and
to satisfy him, over the years, he has taught to desire her, to project oneself onto her
sexually. This leads her to choose the man she wants. Desire and choice
emotionality of masculinity arises, the active starting principle that made of
world what it is. That's why she chooses her man with her induced vibrations.
masculine and, almost invariably, is the wrong person. The woman as a being
true does not desire man. She does not need him. She is the passive principle, of
attraction. She, as a true being, is like a living magnet, irresistible, that without
neither choice nor error will attract the true man who will truly love her
divinely. Unlike man, a woman in her true being can exist
without sexual penetration or masturbation. She expects love, not sex. Babies
they have been for a long time your racial substitute for love in sex. The only reason
why she started to drift into a dream when making love in the first place was to
escape from her growing lack of love. The woman only longs for the man when she
it identifies with its forced male emotionality. Nymphomania is a
projection and a completely male invention, like sex shops, the
pornography and prostitution. The woman has been completely sexually deceived.
by the man, brainwashed in a pathological way. And today, while we
congratulate herself for the progress in breaking the male domination in
the world, she fails to realize that he has her as hooked as ever
in its orgasmic and clitoral substitute when making love. Love, and not equality,
It is about what external feminist protests are based on. The domination.
masculine began in sex and in sex continues unabated. This is the world
of the man and he built it on the strength of his sexual aggression. But the woman
He cannot alter his position by withdrawing from sex or using other mechanisms.
She has tried them all throughout the centuries and none have worked.
It will work. The problem is now racial, beyond the personal sphere of those who
they are involved in solving it. Only divine action or consciousness can
help.
Let me ask you, listen now women:
Do you have any idea how to free yourself from male sexual domination?
How to bring true love back into your life?
How to make your man and yourself start to love, to love
truly as something tangible that you can really create and build together
during the time you are together?
Do you know it?
If you know it, please say it. Say it now, aloud or to someone before I do.
say it. Say it now before trying it after I speak, to tell you that you
You knew it all the time. Because if you say that later, you can forget it, you are not going to
Change. You are not going to make love. To bring love to your sex life you are going to
We need a lot of new energy. That energy begins with honesty -
honesty towards yourself and towards the life that is trying to help you. First,
you must hear yourself admit that your love life is not enough
Good. You must verbalize it, say it, listen to it so that there are no hiding places, no escapes.
Psychological. It is not enough to know that they love inside and not say it anymore.

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So when it is too late, they sob and scream for their love, but the
the door slammed shut already, the house is empty. You must say it now so that
Let your whole being hear it.
Second, if you are seeing the truth of what I have said about love, you must
declare to yourself that it is true. Third, you must admit to yourself that
personally you don't know what to do about the problem, that you have no power outside
to take all the old actions that human beings have taken in their
desperation, and desperation has led them quite unsuccessfully.
since man and woman fell in love for the first time and time, or the
emotion began to come between them. Be honest. If you already know the answer, why
Why haven't you done it? And if you have the answer, why are you listening to this?
Love? It's true that once you, both man and woman, knew how to do the
love. If you are hearing the truth of what I am saying, it means not only
you are ready to remember it again, but you have already started
really to remember. And if while I continue you keep recognizing verbally the
truth of it, so your body or some other body can hear your diligence and
humility, there will be enough energy in you to make a practical start.
Such honesty and self-knowledge generate passion. Passion is the power of
love and true commitment. Passion is the only energy sufficiently
powerful to get the job done. It won't be easy. You'll need every bit of strength
and self-knowledge in your being. Remembering and recognizing the truth while you hear it is
One thing, living it or putting it into practice is the next. The experience of it, by
supposition, is what really counts, and that is hard. However, if you have the
courage, self-honesty, and if you want your freedom, your love, I will guide you to experience it.
Please ask yourself those questions again: Is your love life
good enough? Is what I've said so far the truth, or does it sound familiar to you?
How about the truth? Can you achieve it through your own knowledge or effort?
Solve the problem? Do you need help? Examine this last issue closely.
If the answer is yes, say, 'Yes, I need help.' Admit that you can't do it alone.
because when you abandon yourself, when you truly give yourself in
humility, help is always there inside you, and then it appears outside of
Keep asking yourself these questions every time you listen.
these tapes. Reinforces the energy of honesty and true need. And
as you put what I've told you into practice and see it work, recognize the
truth of it. Keep the passion flowing with gratitude for love and life. Otherwise
you will gradually forget what you have heard and by practicing, you will give up the
fight and you will slide back into the vicious circle where nothing can be done.

To start again making divine love, you must first learn to

getting rid of your own past. You must unlearn or discard everything you have
emotionally accumulated. If you have had a broken love in the past, or a
bad sexual experience, that emotion will still be in you, especially if you are
a woman. If you are a man and study pornographic magazines or images
sexually suggestive, that emotion is there in you now, waiting to erupt
and take possession of you as excitement and premature ejaculation at the first
sexual opportunity. We are all sexually charged, ready to
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But, of course, we cannot possibly mention or know
all our past experiences associated with sexual emotion
stretching back to our childhood. All of them have merged into a
complex and deep darkness that is too complicated and dark for
can we define it at some point. So, how do we start? What do we do?
We will strip ourselves of all our emotions as we approach the act.
of love. We have to make love without any excitement, no expectations,
no imagination. We have to be very much ourselves, to be very
presents, very aware, and understanding everything we do when we are
together.
In what follows, I will assume that you have an intelligent partner who has
I have listened to the two tapes with you, and both of you are committed to trying.
making love in this new way. The less you make love, the more you grow
Apart. Also, you will be making love without emotion or imagination. The
the purpose of this is to get your usual self out of action, to
that you learn to leave it to your bodies.
At first, making love can seem strange, even cold. In the first attempt
You could or could not get an idea. If you had it, there will be a setback sooner or later.
Early when the emotion comes. But do not be discouraged. Persevere. Continue.
Keep loving. The connection will return or come suddenly and then it
will weaken as you go through another wave of emotion that separates. Do not
You can get rid of all the past immediately or not even in a few weeks.
the reality is you have to work on it for the rest of your life. But all the time you will be
making more love and becoming a more conscious and loving human being.
Some of these emotional periods can last a few days. During them,
you can dislike each other. Making love may seem impossible. Without
try it whenever you can, do not allow too long an interval. Without
embargo, if the emotion in any of you is too great to allow
sincerity or love, stop and try again the next day. But, I repeat, do the
love, don’t make excuses. Put the
bodies together and look. Understand that in the guide to making love and in the act
You should not have independent thoughts or decisions about love itself.
the other. Everything must be done together, discussed and observed together while it
you do. No long silences. You must converse and verbalize constantly,
expressing what you are feeling as well as your bodily sensations.
When you feel pleasure, say it; say, 'This is wonderful,' if it is. Say what you really
feel, not what you think. You are supposed to not be thinking, you are supposed to
you are being. That means imitating within your body what he is feeling,
No to what you are thinking. Communicate in words. This will only keep you.
aware and present face to face with the other.
Don't spread yourself sexually from side to side. Stay with one partner.
once you have found it. The emotional couples that are not
They will weaken you and make you lose faith. Keep your energy. She
She is beautiful. It won't be easy to find committed partners. If you are
currently single, my advice is to only make love where there is
sufficient love to start and not just for satisfaction or gratification in
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like each other, be honest with them from the beginning. Tell them the
truth, that you are trying to love and elevate your consciousness through the
love. Take responsibility. Talk about what it implies. Put on the tapes. Yes
you are serious and formal in love, you will finally attract a person to yourself
that will share the beginning of this great adventure with you. If the couple breaks apart
After a while, nothing has really been lost. You both will have gained.
in love and awareness and be just as loving and sincere the next time. The most
important, especially for women, is to be vulnerable to love but
navigate clean of emotions. You know the difference now. Do not separate from yourself
same because they have hurt you. Have the bravery to love. Open up. Love you
will help. Don't let fear harden you. It was the emotion and the lack of
Love that harmed you both. It is the past. Let it go.
Now that you are starting to understand what making love is, you have the
simple answer and the simplest protection of all. Just make love where
there is enough love to be sincere and to be present with the other from the
principle.
And don't fall in love. Falling in love is closing your eyes, preventing the entrance to your beautiful
consciousness and traveling to the land of dreams while you are awake. It is mandatory
it will end in disaster, because you will be in imagination and will not see what is happening.
Be in love. Always be in love when you are in love. Because
being in love and keeping love always fresh and new requires a
tremendous awareness, a tremendous presence of the kind that I have been
describing in these tapes. Be in love in this way and your love does not
It will end, because love has no end. Fall in love and your love will end.
You both should decide in advance when you are going to make love. It allows for a
ample time. No rush. No avoidable distractions. It is imperative that the woman
persevere in your decision to make love. If the moment had to be delayed
Due to work or the children, she must clarify to the man that when the
the right moment come she will not have a headache, or she will be too
tired. She must take responsibility for herself as he must do for him.
She must state her position as: "I'm going to make love to you. No
There is no reason to be impatient or doubtful. I will not change my mind." If not, when one
the moment he will start to get excited, anxious and impatient.
he can't help it when there's no possibility of making love. His fear
the deepest subconscious is that she will change her mind and for some reason
he/she will not achieve it.
Excitement comes from anticipating an ending, in this case an orgasm. And he already has
that learning that making love is not an ending, it is not an orgasm, that when he
I can make love and keep going and going, you, his wife, will be available all the time.
time and at any moment. Who is not available to love? Only
those who do not know it. Meanwhile, the woman has to dispel the growing
his excitement reaffirming his availability. What excites a man and takes away
The hopes as a lover is the supposed unavailability of the woman.
He then desires her instead of loving her, and desire soon runs out or wears out.
As every woman who has ever aroused a man discovers. Of course, if your
A physical relationship is old or boring, the problem will not be excitement but rather making it happen.
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mutually. Making love as I am describing will give both of you a
new approach, a new energy interest to find out if it works, and
this will help keep the old habitual egos out and allow new ones to come in
presents. You don't have to worry about wanting to make love, that is
a false lead. The body loves to make love. The part of you that has or does not have
desires are the problem; she is the emotional thinker that crosses the path.
Leave it to the bodies and they will make love. Stay out of it as much as
you can.
At the beginning, especially if the man suffers from premature ejaculation, the woman is
likely to be the strongest and most direct due to its natural lack of excitability
sexual. She is likely to quickly grasp the spirit of what I am
trying to communicate. She must keep the man in the right by observing
that has no slip in the imagination, since without realizing it, your mind
will start to release sexual and erotic images or thoughts that do not have
nothing to do with the woman she is with. She must work constantly
in keeping their sexual temperature low.
But she, also, due to her acquired masculine emotionality, can step out.
often out of balance, especially if she is near her period
menstrual. Her period makes her ultra-defensive and suspicious of men and herself.
the same, due to its racial associations with the exploitation by man of
she through her youth. Her female perception increases and, like these
conflicts with his masculine emotionality try to project themselves outward, to the world
of the man, she often gets confused and becomes unsure of her role in those
moments.
He, for his part, must keep her upright as well. He must be vigilant to see
that she is present. But never accuse the other of being emotional as that
It would generate more emotion. If one suspects that the other is emotional and is not.
to be honest, he or she should ask the other questions like, 'What are you
Feeling now? Or is this true now? Always refer to the now, never to the...
yesterday. If everyone responds honestly and stays present like
they promised to do, the emotional will see himself being emotional and, to
admit it without discussion or justification, the emotion will tend to disperse and love
it will remain. You must keep talking. Always from the point of what you are
making or feeling love. You should not dream. You must keep the other present.
You will soon get the hang of it. Trust one another. Listen to each other. Don't you
disgusted with the other saying you are not present. Resist the urge to argue
again. Listen. Discover together. There is nothing to defend if you are sincere.
Let me tell you when the moment you have agreed upon has arrived.
make love. Undress in the same room. Leave the light on. Don't you
Hide. Don't concentrate. Love is a serious matter, but not that serious.
Look at each other, eyes and body. Smile. Don't think about what is going to happen.
or in what you are going to do. Be there in the room together, now. Standing naked
and sections. Look at each other's body - do not judge, do not think. Be in the
present. Please don't be shy. Hold on to love. Start by loving yourself
same and being yourself, including the flaws. If you see that your partner is
shy, help her. Smile. Look for something good and true to say. Look for the
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Be new. Don't look back. Be yourself, just as you are now. Be naked.
both psychologically and physically. Be vulnerable. You have nothing to lose that
you have not lost a long, long time ago. While you look at each other,
truly seeing, without using imagination or trying to leap from this
moment to the next movement, you cannot think, you cannot use the
imagination - which, if it could, would project you making love with some other person
or an imaginary vagina or a penis that isn't really there. Anyway,
Why do you need imagination? To get in tune? To have a
Erection! It makes no sense! That is an emotional habit that most of the world
has been taken due to the lack of love or understanding. It is a very difficult habit to
breaking, but you have to do it. We can do it together, if you are with me in the
present. You don't need your imagination to make love because you are with the
true, the real living man or woman who is going to give you the most feeling
delicious and pleasurable that you can have - in the flesh and not just in the mind.
Can you see how we have all been deceived by imagination? How to
Throughout time, children and adults have been masturbating and doing the
love in the imagination, unconscious that the imagination, not the action itself,
Is it a complete self-delusion and a cruel addiction? And because of what each one
consents to the same imaginative drug, their escapism without love is considered
normal and even necessary, without being considered at all. Let me anticipate you
A question that will arise in many of you, especially among men:
How do you masturbate without imagination? You, an adult, cannot. When you stop
imagine will stop masturbation. The habit is imagination, not masturbation.
Imagination arises from emotions and that leads you to masturbation. Yes
you have to masturbate, and due to male emotionality the pressure to
doing it is intense, particularly for males, uses very few images as
you can. Do not use faces. No one ever made love to a face, except in their
imagination. If you are a man, use only the image of the female part.
Get only the low image. That is the closest to reality. Distract yourself.
same from the head through not thinking or coveting in normal moments
to the opposite sex, and the urge to masturbate will gradually disappear.
Start now to renounce the universal drug of sexual imagination. Be yourself.
same. Stay where you are. Be responsible. However, do not feel guilty
if you masturbate, don't let your child feel guilty. The guilt of it
it distorts the personality of both, young and adult. The error is not in the act.
not from masturbation but from the misuse of imagination - not only during the act
but, more importantly, during the rest of the work day, reading,
thoughts and socialization. The compulsion to masturbate is racial. It is part
from evolutionary past, the unconscious male projective instinct of the
animal species from which we derive, and that mate mechanically or
instinctively only to reproduce. The male monkey masturbates with
shameless indifference and lack of guilt! Unlike man, the monkey does not
He can avoid his lack of care. That's because he can't make love. If he
if I had the creative power to make love, I would see myself
masturbating and would also feel unhappy. But his only option is
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The power of making love, which only man possesses, is the self-awareness that
it distinguishes him from the rest of the animal species. However, when he does wrong
use, moreover, of his unique and creative gift of imagination through the
sexual images, it touches the door of its animal past, in the impulse
animal mechanic, and masturbates and mates without love. So he is not happy.
Until man has made enough love to return to his place
himself on earth, he will not be able to be happy. Have you lost the drive to do the
love while I have been talking? Not really. The body does not lose momentum
of making love. He will always enjoy making love if the monitor, you, does not
put on the path. Smile at each other and hug, still standing. This is the
moment when imagination is likely to start, when you are looking
over the other’s shoulder, or when you close your eyes. That's why, no eyes
closed. Feel the flesh of the other, the back, the arms. Don't think - feel. The
a man can caress the woman; she can caress him and hold him with love but
she should not touch her genitals. She remains passive, interested and not
demonstrative. It is his job to please her and delight her, to give to her and not to get excited.
himself. He should only focus on pleasing her, and this will give him pleasure without
emotion. It is okay to kiss softly on the lips and on the torso, but not on the
language. The tongue can be like an emotional penis; lovers get lost and
they hide themselves in such kisses. Love is made consciously in the
vagina - you are not there yet. There should be no substitutes. When you are there and
if you have learned to be totally present there, you can do anything
that requires your mutual passion. At this moment, remain present with the
another saying what you feel out loud. If you feel the passion rising, or,
excitement, say it. Focus your attention on the solar plexus, because that is where it begins
passion before overflowing to the genitals. The woman will be able to feel the
solar plexus before man; in his excitement he is likely to lose it and
connect above with the emotion in the penis. Smile, make a joke if you want.
You may feel that making love like this is as clinical as a visit to the doctor.
truth. That's how it's supposed to be, until you make your way. Stay
with me, please. It is possible that the man may not have an erection or may be able to
lose it. If she has lost it due to a lack of imaginative stimulus, it is a
Good thing. Continuing like this, it is less likely that I will have an ejaculation.
too early when I entered into her. Or she may have become so dependent on the
imagination that cannot achieve an erection without such imagination. This is
more likely if your loving act in the past has been habitual. Remember, a
erection is only necessary in the vagina where love is made, therefore he does not
he needs an erection at this stage. If he has a full erection now, he is
emotional and is already on the path to a premature climax. But, it shouldn't.
to feel disheartened if he doesn't have it; he just has to keep out anything
imaginative stimulus, so that their excitement does not become uncontrollable when
Enter into the woman. She must remind him of that continuously, so that he remains.
separated, interrupting the strength of his desire, and keep at bay his
sexual temperature. If the man loses or partially loses his erection, he can
allowing to kiss her breasts or touch her genitals, but without the
finger penetration - in other words, showing her love in her hands.
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spiritual fragrance of her feminine presence. As he loves her in this
Thus, her passion will rise. While she takes care of maintaining the
his imagination in check, he must be alert to see that she is present
really, especially if she is enjoying being caressed. They must
continue talking, always about what each one is feeling now. No
long silences. No happy euphoria that is not verbalized or shared with the other.
If the feeling is sweet, beautiful, nice, wonderful, whatever it may be
the right word, she must say it. His job is to please her, and she must
respond and thank her for her love. However, she must be careful and not only
observe the feeling she is experiencing: she must aspire to be the feeling,
put your consciousness in that part of the body where pleasure is. At this point,
after minimal and occasionally no flirtation, you both should
lie down together and the man enters the woman softly and lovingly. The idea of
A minimum or no romantic games before entering is to allow you to give yourself.
counts as a new experience, conscious, that the penis and the vagina together, nothing
more, they are the ones who make love. Everything else is imagination and a
avoidance of love responsibility now.

Let me briefly tell you how the physical love game originated, and you'll see that
it had to do with the beginning of imagination about the earth and nothing to do with
love or making love. The romantic game developed in species, like
you can see in the mating games represented by the creatures of the
nature, long before the creative man seemed to be on earth.
They were the way of nature to introduce the first trace of
imagination in the development of the animal brain, that was ultimately
develop the human brain, your brain.
The mating games of nature, as you can still experience
Today in your body, they caused an extended pleasurable sensation in the creatures.
primitive, unconscious without really making love. And the constant
pressure to increase the awareness of that good feeling over time
produced the first signs of instinctive mental activity or imagination in the
brain. But the man, who penetrated into the physical body or prepared brain
for him, around twelve thousand years ago, it is a spiritual or creative being for
own law. He does not need an animal imagination based on
sexual games or beneath your being, this is part of the historical past of
brain. All he needed was the splendid final instrument, the brain
human, to allow oneself to exist and be present. At first, I had no
problem to resist the games of the brain's instinctive imagination, and in
bring to earth the new order of spiritual love and the divine presence among the
man and the woman. But gradually, with the accumulation of time as I have
described, he and she returned more and more to imaginative sexual games
primitives and forgot how to love. The truth is, and if you can see it will be a
important moment in your life, for the man and the woman who are being
themselves, all the passions and social flirtations, the private kisses that
preceding the loving act is a way to avoid taking responsibility for
love now. For us, but not for the animals that cannot know it,
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erroneous, to try to lift our courage, or a drug to help us
forget what we are doing, because we are not yet prepared to be
ourselves, to face the reality of the love we are making
now, not in some future. Thus, as is customary in the world made by the
Man, the opposite of what is accepted and practiced is the truth: the world
Play games and do not make love. The truth is: make love and do not play games.
When you go together now, I want you to be emotionally separate, it is
to say, separated from the old brain, from the past, but present in love -
aware, patient, considerate, giving, and able to see the fun side that you
would happen.
If the man does not have a full erection, he can be helped in the vagina.
But if possible, the woman should avoid stimulating him with caresses. If there is
enough love between you two, he will have a sufficient erection upon entry.
He may have to lie there against her until love comes. No
You can hurry or force him. The same is true when the man is
apparently impotent - simply there is not enough love present and
you both must wait patiently, or get up and try again later or the next day
next. You are exchanging love as the power that guides and you must have
faith in him. As soon as love flows while you are lying face to face, the
the penis will move suddenly like a living thing and will extend towards the vagina.
This will surprise you, particularly the man himself, and you will start to
understand the wonderful power and the intelligence with which you are trying
connect you. Once inside, the penis will become fully erect, and the man
you will see for yourself that the penis, given the presence and love in both
It will always stand erect in the vagina without the need for
advance stimulation. Then, on future occasions while you persevere
on this path, you will be able to make love for longer periods
for your mutual love and delight.
But upon entering now and in the future, he must be prepared for the emotionality.
the masculinity of the woman. This will sometimes leave her, to her great astonishment,
perplexity, with the penis still partially erect. The more she learns to
to remain present, the less obstacle the release of this energy will be for him.
During the entry, nothing should be forced. Gentle firmness is the way of
my. After making love constantly this way, the vagina
it will return more sensitively receptive without the need for external stimulation.
Only emotional tension makes the vagina resistant or unprepared for
love. The more emotional tension is reduced, which means that the
consciousness or the sensitivity of the vagina is growing, the joy will grow more
from the woman when making love. At the same time, the man, as he detaches very
Behind the emotional dependency, presence will grow and you will begin to feel a
new sense of dominion and authority coming into your life.

If the man has a full erection before entering, he is already emotional. This
It is normal today, but it means you have to be very aware and calm.
while he enters, or he will ejaculate. An erect penis outside the vagina has a
emotional will for itself. Inside the vagina, this will, which is in
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minutes. But since suppression is not love, the act of love will not be satisfying
for neither party, unless it is one of those times when everything
it comes together. He must enter her slowly. As he does, they must be one.
with the sensation of his penis; that means he must feel what his penis is
feeling in every moment, and not just the urgency, the pressure of their own desire.
He must come to know the difference; he must bring his awareness down there, to
his penis where he is making love, and outside of his head.
He must not allow the mind to wander. He must be present without imagining.
where is your penis. Your penis has no imagination; only the sensation of what
Yes, from where it is. It must be this feeling, this ultra-sensitive consciousness.
that responds in perfect harmony to the energy needs of the
vaginal consciousness. A thought about where his penis is and it is likely
when he ejaculated. The moment he feels that he can no longer stop the ejaculation is the
moment when he can. He should not believe in this first feeling of
the inevitability of orgasm and surrendering to it. This is a trick of repressed emotion.
wanting to liberate oneself, which is part of the old animal impulse to masturbate or
reproduce. When the feeling arrives, all movement must cease, being
completely still, or withdraw immediately. He will discover that which is
the best for him. He must not give in to the feeling. This moment is crucial because
it can be the point at which you can use your creative, spiritual, or your authority
presence as a man, and resist or dissipate the instinctive animal emotion. I repeat:
it should not go with inevitability, it should not believe that it cannot stop - because
You can. Only in the next instant is the orgasm inevitable. Upon entering the
woman with an erection, should penetrate until she can and remain still.
He should allow his penis to feel it, absorb the vaginal energy. It will inform
to the penis what to do, what is needed. He must only respond to his penis, not to
what he has learned, heard, or can remember. He must keep to the past, all
past experiences and thoughts out. He must be as new as the
right now. Then the penis will do its divine work.
She should not make movements with her body that she has learned from others.
lovers or acquired through readings or movies. Every movement must
to let the body be, even if it means no movement. At first
It may not be easy for her to separate the two. The body contortions
invented by making feigned signs of pleasure and participation, or the movements
pure, imperceptible, natural from their body under the control of consciousness
vaginal. Later the body will move passionately, but not
necessarily in a demonstrative manner, by right of its own. But to begin,
all extremes of movements, and particularly any aggression or
male assertiveness is suspicious and should be abandoned.
She must remember that love in a woman is not a projection. It is a
calm, sweet, natural, fluid movement. Flexing the muscles of the vagina is
a good trick, and it surely entertains an emotional penis, programmer is not
love.
The couple should continue to maintain a loving dialogue about what they are.
feeling, each one saying how beautiful it is and how much they like making love, yes
Hello, it is true. Making love is beautiful, and everyone likes it when the vagina and
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forward and backward, the man should try to stay close to the part
vaginal opening. The vagina is an elastic cavity taught with internal tension,
and each time the head of the penis should open it, taking the tension and the excitement
residual of the entire upper and lower part moving as much as possible to one side
to another. When a man becomes sexually calm and present, the head
the penis acts as a highly sensitized magnet. At first, it collects the
vaginal tensions, provided that she is learning to be herself and
no longer projecting them as unnecessary activity, emotionalism, and personality.
Later, the penis begins to gather its divine energies. When the energies
divine ones have been gathered, the purpose of making love has been fulfilled and the
A man can lose his erection inside the vagina without having an orgasm.

The need to control birth rates on the planet arises solely because
the man lost sexual control of himself, releasing sperm even
when I had an erection outside of the vagina, and ejaculating inside
automatically. When time and the world were very young, man and the
woman made love consciously like the gods they were, to be present
in a body on earth was a great privilege. And the population was maintained
very small, due to the man's responsibility to love the woman. The
the man did ejaculate during intercourse, but very rarely, and only at the moment
in what was determined by divine intelligence, love itself, with which he was
united.
Today, loving correctly, and being the sensation in the vagina or the penis, and
trying not to cling to a separate identity, which is the ego, the man or the
woman will enter into the awareness of the love that lies behind the part of the
brain that controls the genitals. Here, the two poles of love on earth, the
the masculine and the feminine unite in the magic of consciousness, the divine
presence of their mutual divinity. Love or God can never be the subject of a
philosophical exercise. Love or God is too real. Love or God is to live and
do it now, do not speculate about it, do not think about it. I trust I have not been
philosophical in these tapes, but effective and practical, so that Love and God may be
truly served in your understanding - not just when you are doing the
Love, unless now you have the opportunity to be the love that you never were.
Since it is now every moment. Let me end by referring to romance.
Romance is not something fleeting. Romance is not a box of chocolates,
anniversaries remembered, sweet words, beautiful things, love letters or
beautiful afternoons together. These are parts of the romance of living, and so is the
death that ruins everything. You can't have the good without the clash of the bad
in the romance of living.
True romance is the myth of life, the wonderful adventure of man and the
woman together, discovering through love, through the other, that there is no
death, there is no end in life or love that does not cling or fear.
Thank you for your presence. I leave you in love.

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