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📘 The Portrait of a Lady – Khushwant Singh

🔹 About the Author

 Khushwant Singh (1915–2014): Indian novelist, journalist, historian.

 Famous for his sharp wit, humor, and deeply personal narratives.

 This piece is autobiographical – about his grandmother, with whom he shared a close
bond.

🔹 Full Detailed Summary

1. The Grandmother’s Appearance

 The author describes his grandmother as extremely old and wrinkled.

 Her face resembled a “winter landscape in the mountains” → imagery of stillness and
dignity.

 She always wore spotless white clothes, looked serene and spiritual, and constantly
prayed.

 She carried a rosary (prayer beads), symbolizing her religious devotion.

 He couldn’t imagine she was ever young and pretty → she always seemed timeless.

2. Life in the Village (Early Childhood)

 The author lived with his grandmother in a village when he was young.

 Grandmother was his sole guardian, as parents lived in the city.

 She woke him up, bathed him, dressed him, fed him chapattis with butter and sugar.

 She accompanied him to the village school, which was attached to a temple.

 While he learned alphabets and morning prayers, she read scriptures in the temple.

 She also fed stray dogs on the way to school → shows compassion and kindness.
3. Moving to the City

 Major turning point.

 In the city, his parents were present; his bond with his grandmother weakened.

 He began going to an English medium school in a bus, studied modern subjects like
science, English, and music.

 Grandmother did not approve:

o Could not understand English or scientific teachings.

o Disapproved of music, calling it “not meant for decent people, but for prostitutes
and beggars”.

 She felt isolated, unable to help in his studies.

 Still, she didn’t show anger — she remained dignified, quietly accepting change.

4. University Days

 When the author went to university, he had his own room.

 The grandmother and he were separated physically and emotionally.

 She rarely spoke to him, spent most of her time spinning at the charkha (spinning
wheel).

 Her daily routine:

o Spinning yarn,

o Reciting prayers,

o Feeding sparrows on the verandah.

 The sparrows became her silent companions.

5. After Studying Abroad

 The author went abroad for five years.

 When he returned, she looked the same — not older or younger.

  She welcomed him with happiness, thumped a drum, and sang songs of warriors’
homecoming (a rare display of emotion and energy).

6. Her Last Days

 Next morning, she fell ill with a mild fever.

 She declared her end was near.

 She stopped conversing with the family and focused only on prayers.

 Spent her final hours reciting rosary beads.

 Passed away peacefully — her face serene and calm.

7. Mourning and Sparrows

 After her death, an extraordinary sight was witnessed:

o Thousands of sparrows sat quietly around the house and courtyard.

o They made no noise, no chirping, no movement → unusual since sparrows are

normally noisy.

o They seemed to mourn her death, as if nature itself grieved her passing.

 Next morning, they flew away silently.

 This symbolizes that she was not just a family figure, but her saintly presence touched
even nature.

🔹 Detailed Character Sketch of the Grandmother

 Appearance: Old, wrinkled, white-clad, bent, carrying rosary, deeply spiritual.

 Religious & Spiritual: Devoted to prayers, temple visits, scriptures, acceptance of death.

 Loving Guardian: Took care of the author in childhood, ensured his well-being.

 Compassionate: Fed stray dogs, later sparrows.

 Traditional vs. Modern: Could not adjust to science/music/English, but never imposed
her views.
  Silent Endurance: Accepted changes in her relationship with dignity.

 Death with Dignity: Faced death without fear — saint-like.

 Symbol of Indian Grandmothers: Represents values of devotion, sacrifice, and

unconditional love.

🔹 Themes & Messages

1. Generational Gap

o Old vs. young, tradition vs. modernity.

o Yet, the bond of love transcends this gap.

2. Family Bond & Affection

o Grandmother-grandson relationship evolves, but remains rooted in respect and

love.

3. Spirituality

o Shows how faith, prayer, and simplicity define a meaningful life.

4. Change & Transition

o Village → city → university → abroad.

o Relationships evolve with circumstances.

5. Acceptance of Death

o Grandmother accepted death peacefully, showing her wisdom and maturity.

6. Man & Nature

o Sparrows mourning symbolize the oneness of humans and nature.

🔹 Literary Devices

 Imagery: Her wrinkled face as a “winter landscape”.

 Simile: Comparing her to the mountain landscape.

 Symbolism:

o Sparrows = nature’s grief.

 o Rosary = spirituality.

o Charkha = simplicity and detachment.

 Contrast: Village education (religion, alphabets) vs. city education (science, English).

 Personification: Sparrows behaving like humans in mourning.

🔹 Important Questions (Exam-Oriented)

Q1. Write a character sketch of the grandmother.

(Already given above → include religious, compassionate, saint-like, dignified, loving, accepting
change, spiritual.)

Q2. How does the story highlight the theme of tradition vs. modernity?

 Grandmother = religious, traditional, spiritual.

 Author = modern education, science, music.

 She could not relate, yet respected him.

 Shows conflict but also coexistence.

Q3. Describe the changes in the relationship between the author and his grandmother.

 Village: very close, inseparable.

 City: bond weakened (English, science, music).

 University: more separation, she lived in prayer & spinning.

 Abroad: distance increased, but love remained.

 Shows how time changes relationships but not deep affection.

Q4. How did the grandmother face her death? What was unusual about the sparrows’
behavior?

 She faced death calmly, chanting prayers, stopping all conversation.

 Death was peaceful, saint-like.

 Sparrows mourned silently — symbolizing respect, universality of grief.

✨ A Photograph – Shirley Toulson

🔹 About the Poet

 Shirley Toulson (1924–2016): British poet and writer.

 Known for writing about time, memory, and personal loss.

 This poem is autobiographical, expressing grief about her mother’s death.

🔹 The Poem (Paraphrased)

The poem is about looking at an old photograph of the poet’s mother as a little girl standing on
a beach with her cousins.

 First Stanza:

o The photograph shows her mother at about 12 years old, smiling with two
cousins, paddling at the beach.

o Their uncle clicked the photo.

o Their innocent smiles are compared to a “terribly transient” (short-lived)

moment.

 Second Stanza:

o The poet says that her mother would look at the photo after many years and
laugh, remembering the sea holiday.

o It was her favorite memory, but she laughed at the contrast between childhood
innocence and her adult self.

 Third Stanza:

o Now, the mother is dead.

o The poet says both the “sea” and her mother have remained in contrast:

 The sea has remained the same (eternal, immortal).

 But her mother’s life ended (mortal, fragile).

o The poet herself is left in deep silence.

🔹 Line-by-Line / Stanza Explanation

Stanza 1

“The cardboard shows me how it was / When the two girl cousins went paddling, / Each one
holding one of my mother’s hands, / And she the big girl – some twelve years or so.”

 “Cardboard” = the material of old photographs.

 The picture shows the poet’s mother as a child, about 12 years old, holding the hands of
her younger cousins, paddling in the sea.

 Captured moment of happiness, innocence.

 The use of “cardboard” already suggests the fragility of memory.

“All three stood still to smile through their hair / At the uncle with the camera, A sweet face, /
My mother’s, that was before I was born / And the sea, which appears to have changed less.”

 All three are smiling despite wind blowing their hair.

 Their uncle took the photo.

 The poet notes the difference:

o Her mother (mortal, changed, gone).

o The sea (immortal, unchanged).

Stanza 2

“Some twenty – thirty – years later / She’d laugh at the snapshot. ‘See Betty / And Dolly,’ she’d
say, ‘and look how they / Dressed us for the beach.’ ”

 After decades, the mother looked at the photo and laughed at their clothes and
childhood innocence.

 Memory created joy for her → nostalgic.

“The sea holiday / Was her past, mine is her laughter. Both wry / With the laboured ease of
loss.”

 For the mother: The holiday was past, something to laugh about.

 For the poet: Her mother’s laughter is now the past, as she is no longer alive.

 “Laboured ease of loss” → oxymoron; accepting loss but with pain.

Stanza 3

“Now she’s been dead nearly as many years / As that girl lived. And of this circumstance / There
is nothing to say at all. Its silence silences.”

 The mother has been dead for many years (around the same number as her age in the
photo).

 Poet feels speechless; silence is her only response to grief.

 Death leaves an emptiness that words cannot express.

🔹 Themes & Messages

1. Passage of Time

o Childhood → adulthood → death.

o Time moves forward, memories remain, people don’t.

2. Mortality vs. Immortality

o Human life is transient (mother grew up, then died).

o Nature (sea) is eternal, unaffected by time.

3. Memory and Loss

o Photograph = preserved memory of mother’s childhood.

o Poet = remembers her mother through both the photograph and her laughter.

4. Grief & Acceptance of Death

o Poet doesn’t cry or express emotions loudly.

o Instead, she conveys deep grief through silence.

5. Contrast of Past & Present

o Sea holiday = joyful memory for mother.

o Mother’s death = painful memory for poet.

🔹 Poetic Devices

 Imagery: Visual imagery of children on the beach, hair blown by wind.

  Metaphor: “Cardboard” → symbolizes old photographs, fragile memories.

 Personification: Sea appears eternal, unchanging.

 Alliteration: “stood still to smile”, “silence silences”.

 Oxymoron: “Laboured ease of loss” → grief accepted but painful.

 Contrast: Mother’s mortality vs. sea’s immortality.

 Symbolism: Photograph = frozen moment of joy & loss.

🔹 Structure & Style

 Free verse (no rhyme scheme).

 Divided into 3 stanzas (past, middle, present).

 Shifts in time:

o Stanza 1 = Mother’s childhood (before poet’s birth).

o Stanza 2 = Mother’s adulthood (before mother’s death).

o Stanza 3 = Poet’s present (after mother’s death).

 Tone: Nostalgic → Reflective → Silent grief.

🔹 Deeper Analysis

 The poem explores the human condition: time erases people, but memories preserve
fragments.

 Photographs serve as evidence of existence but cannot bring back the person.

 Silence at the end suggests that grief is beyond words → silence is the truest expression.

 Generational link: Poet (daughter) → Mother → Childhood photo.

 It shows how love, memory, and loss connect generations.

🔹 Important Quotations

1. “The sea, which appears to have changed less.” → Sea = eternal, humans = transient.
 2. “Both wry with the laboured ease of loss.” → Memory brings both acceptance and pain.

3. “Its silence silences.” → Finality of death, ineffability of grief.

🔹 Exam-Oriented Questions

Q1. What contrast does the poet draw between the sea and her mother?

 Sea = eternal, unchanging.

 Mother = mortal, life ended.

 Highlights human fragility vs. nature’s permanence.

Q2. How does the poet react to her mother’s death?

 Not loud grief, but deep silence.

 “Its silence silences” → speechless acceptance of the finality of death.

Q3. How does Shirley Toulson use the photograph as a symbol?

 Photograph freezes a joyful moment of her mother’s childhood.

 For her mother → memory of a sea holiday.

 For the poet → memory of her mother’s laughter.

 Symbolizes memory, time, and loss.

Q4. Explain “Both wry with the laboured ease of loss.”

 Wry = twisted smile, bitter-sweet.

 Laboured ease = acceptance of loss, but with difficulty.

 Means: both the mother (looking at her childhood holiday) and the poet (thinking of her
mother’s laughter) feel loss and nostalgia.

Q5. Write a critical appreciation of the poem.

 Themes: memory, loss, time, mortality.

 Structure: 3 time periods.

 Devices: imagery, symbolism, oxymoron, contrast.

 Tone: nostalgic, melancholic, philosophical.