Chapter 8
Sexual Behaviors
Celibacy
Types of Celibacy
Complete celibacy
Partial celibacy
Reasons for or Benefits of Celibacy
Religious, moral beliefs
Waiting for the appropriate person
Learning about other aspects of self
Health considerations
During substance abuse recovery
Erotic Dreams
Expression and exploration of desires taking
place within the mind
Most males, two thirds females
Nocturnal orgasm
Erotic Fantasy
Can occur during daydreams, masturbation, or
during sexual encounters
95% of women and men fantasize
Fantasy content among heterosexual and non-
heterosexual individuals are similar, except for
sex of imagined partner
Sexual Fantasy
Function of sexual fantasies
Source of pleasure and arousal
Overcome sexual anxiety
Acceptable expression of socially unacceptable
behavior
Gender similarities and differences
Fantasies: Help or Hindrance?
Most research points to helpful
Perspectives on Masturbation
Traditional Condemnation
Viewed as non-procreational
Erroneous health concerns
Freud considered it immature
Contemporary research has established that it is
not harmful
Purposes for Masturbation
Relieves sexual tension
Means of self-exploration
Assists in physical relaxation
Self-Pleasuring Technique
Follow your moral values
Set aside adequate time and relax
Experiment with different types of touch
Male Masturbation
Female Masturbation
Maltz Levels of Sexual Expression
Maltz levels of sexual expression
Sexual energy as a force
Positive
+1 = positive role fulfillment
+2 = making love
+3 = authentic sexual intimacy
Negative
-1 = impersonal interaction
-2 = abusive interaction
-3 = violent interaction
Maltz Hierarchy of Sexual Interaction
Kissing and Touching
Kissing
Cross-cultural practices and attitudes toward kissing
Touching
Cornerstone of human sexuality
Whole body is responsive
Personal preferences
Specific erogenous zones
Tribadism
Manual Stimulation of Genitals
Individual differences with regard to manual
stimulation
Most women need consistent touching through
orgasm
Men may not like to be touched just after orgasm
Oral-Genital Stimulation
Types: cunnilungus and fellatio
Acceptance varies
More unmarried people engaging in oral sex
now than reported in Kinseys survey
Oral-Genital Stimulation
Oral-Genital Stimulation
Sources of Unpleasant or Bitter-Tasting
Ejaculate
Anal Stimulation
Prevalence is lower than other forms of sexual
activity
Health risk (HIV, other infections)
Lubricants and gentle insertion needed
Anilingus/ Rimming
Coitus and Coital Positions
Position variations
Man or woman above
Face-to-face
Side-lying
Rear entry
What Is Your Favorite Intercourse
Position?
Coital Positions
Coital Positions
Coital Positions
Coital Positions
Tantric Intercourse
Eastern path to spiritual enlightenment
Sexual expression considered a form of spiritual
meditation
Involves control and delay of male orgasm with
focus on harmony with partner