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Kecakapan Antar Personal

Sesi 1
Why We Communicate?

“I would rather have had the worst


companion than no companion at all”
(Gawande, 2009)
Physical needs

 Communication is so important that its presence or


absence affects health. People who process a negative
experience by talking about it report improved life
satisfaction, as well as enhanced mental and physical
health, compared with those who only think privately
about it
 Research conducted with police officers found that being
able to talk easily with colleagues and supervisors about
work-related trauma was linked to greater physical and
mental health
 broader study of over 3,500 adults revealed that as
little as 10 minutes of talking a day, face to face or by
phone, improves memory and boosts intellectual
function
Identity Needs

Communication does more than enable


us to survive. It is the primary way we
learn who we are (Harwood, 2005)
Identity Needs

 In this class:

TALK
Identity Needs

 the messages we receive in early childhood are the


strongest identity shapers, but the influence of others
continues throughout life
Social Needs

 Some social scientists have argued that besides


helping define who we are, communication is the
principal way relationships are created.
 Relationships satisfy a variety of social needs, such as:
 Giving and receiving affection,
 Having fun,
 Helping others and being helped,
 Developing a sense of self-worth
Social Needs

 Dark side of communications

“The cause-effect relationship isn’t always clear, but


research shows that lonely people prefer to interact
with others online, which can lead to problematic
internet use, which can create a greater sense of
loneliness (Kim et al., 2009; Tokunaga, 2016)”
Social Needs

 One anthropologist (Goldschmidt, 1990) calls the


drive for meeting social needs through
communication “the human career.”
 There’s a strong link between the quality of
communication and the success of relationships. For
example, children who grow up in strong
conversation-oriented families report having more
satisfying same-sex friendships and romantic
relationships when they become adults
Practical Needs

Beyond these obvious needs, a wealth of


research demonstrates that
COMMUNICATION is an essential
ingredient for success in virtually every
career.
Practical Needs

 Psychologist Abraham Maslow (1968) suggests that


human needs fall into five categories, each of which
must be satisfied before we concern ourselves with
the next one.
 The most basic needs are physical: sufficient air,
water, food, and rest and the ability to reproduce as a
species.
 The second category of Maslow’s needs involves
safety: protection from threats to our well-being.
Practical Needs

 Beyond physical and safety concerns are the social


needs described earlier.
 Next, Maslow suggests that each of us has the need
for self-esteem: the desire to believe that we are
worthwhile, valuable people.
 The final category of needs involves self-actualization:
the desire to develop our potential to the maximum,
to become the best person we can be
The Key!

 The key to healthy communication lies in a principle :


all things in moderation. When online
communication complements and reinforces in-
person relationships, it can be a wonderful tool for
meeting social needs. When it mostly or completely
replaces face-to-face interaction, there may be cause
for concern.

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