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PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
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Chapter 7
Building and Establishing
Harmonized Relationships with
Others
Personal Development
Relationships in
Adolescence
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WHAT IS LOVE?
It is something which cannot be fully captured
in any single definition. As it is subjectively
defined, there could be as many definitions of the
concept as there is many people defining it.
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Personal Relationships
The concept of relationships is very broad and
complex. In our model, personal relationships refer to
close connections between people, formed by emotional
bonds and interactions. These bonds often grow from and
are strengthened by mutual experiences.
Identity is how you view yourself, based on your
abilities, strengths, weaknesses, beliefs, past
experiences, etc. It is summed up in your sense of
uniqueness.
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Partnerships
Intimacy is self-disclosure or sharing your private
thoughts with another person.
Pakikisama – establishing good interpersonal relationship
is important during the adolescent stage.
Attraction – it is a feeling that draws you to become
closer to another person.
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Forms of Attraction
Crush – according to author E. Hurlock, crush is “the love of an
adolescent toward an older member or the same or opposite sex.”
a. Identity crush – forms when an adolescent finds someone he/she
admires, wants to be intimate with, or wishes to follow as his/her
leader.
b. Romantic crush – forms when an adolescent finds someone as
attractive and feels the desire to spend a lot of time with him/her.
Hero Worship – very similar to crush, though it differs in the sense
that is characterized by the absence of personal contact with the one
being admired (or the object of the “crush”).
Courtship – can be considered under the attraction stage. It is a
phase in a romantic relationship before engagement and marriage.
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Ways of Showing
Attraction, Love, and
Commitment
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ACCEPTABLE EXPRESSIONS OF ATTRACTION
1. Glancing at each other
2. Verbal communication – saying ‘I love you’ or ‘I like
you’
3. Smiling
4. Writing letters
5. Phone calls or chatting
6. Giving presents
7. Showing attraction through social media (with
limitations)
8. Holding hands
9. Walking arm-in-arm
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UNACCEPTABLE EXPRESSIONS OF ATTRACTION
1.Kissing/cuddling/holding in public
2.Flirting
3.Invading personal space
4.Intimate activities
5.Back rubbing/massaging/caressing/stroking
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Chapter 8
Building and Establishing
Harmonized Relationship with the
Society/Community
Personal Development
Roles and Responsibilities in
the Community
Personal Development
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SOCIAL STRUCTURE
It is described as the social model or
pattern by which society is organized.
COMMUNITY
It is often defined as a set of people with different
characteristics; sharing ties, similar views, and
participating in joint deeds in geographical settings or
locations.
SOCIETY
It is defined by sociologists as the people
interacting to share a common or general culture.
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STATUS VS. ROLE
Status is the position or rank that you have.
Types of Status
• Inherited Status. This is the type of status
that is given to you at birth.
• Acquired Status. This is the type of status
that is determined by your knowledge, skill,
and ability.
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THE LEADER AND THE FOLLOWER
Leadership can be defined as the guidance of
other people in their pursuits which is often done by
organizing, coordinating, directing, supporting, and
motivating others. It is one’s ability to lead other
people.
Followership is the act of working with a
leader and the members of a group
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Filipino Relationships
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EXPLORE IDEAS
Although bayanihan manifests in
many forms, it is best shown in the
old tradition of neighbors helping a
relocating family by carrying the
whole house and moving it to its
new location through volunteering.
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I Am a Reflection of My Culture
● pagmamano
● using po and opo to elders
● returning the favor to someone who
helped you
● being hospitable to guests
● faith in God
● amor propio or defending one’s dignity
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I Am a Reflection of My Culture
● being hospitable to guests
● learning how to say no
● disregarding discomfort and saying
yes all the time
● pakikisama
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Chapter 9
Building and Establishing
Harmonized Relationship with the
Family
Personal Development
Family Systems and
Structures
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Basic Functions of a Family
Procreation
Economic Family Emotional
support is the basic unit of support
society and a
primary agent
of socialization.
Socialization
and Identity and
education social roles
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Family System Sociological Theories
Social Exchange Theory
Conflict Theory
This views the family from an
This focuses on the unequal
economic
power that is seen in the family.
perspective. It assumes that
Conflict is seen as a natural
the members of the family are
element
rational beings and that they
of interactions in the family.
act on the basis of reward and
cost.
Interactionist Theory
This focuses heavily on the
interactions that exist within a
family. Through these
interactions, wherein significant
people greatly influence a
person, a family member’s
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Tracing One’s Roots
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Genogram
Tracking patterns
Tracing medical history
Genogram Purpose of Genogram
Understanding emotional
relationships
Family and individual
therapy
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A Genogram’s Effect on the Family
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How to Make a Genogram
1. Identify your goal. 2. Research thoroughly.
Before you start making your ● Get the correct names of your
genogram, identify its purpose. A relatives.
genogram can show many aspects ● Be ready to do many interviews,
of your family’s history, but knowing phone calls, and email
how it will be used will guide your correspondence.
research. ● Prepare a set of questions to guide
your research and interviews.
● Ask the right people for information.
● Be objective. Make sure your
information is accurate.
● Organize information into categories:
familial connection, emotional
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How to Make a Genogram
Make legends to show relationships between family
members.
Start with your immediate
family.
Include significant details only.
List complete and accurate information on 3
generations.
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Example of a Genogram
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Chapter 10
Monitoring One’s Career
Development
Personal Development
CAREER
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A career was described by Santos as
having a job that suits the skills, goals,
and personality traits that a person
has. It could be a profession that the
adolescent has always aspired to or it
can be a means of earning an income.
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COMPONENTS OF A CAREER
• Life goals. It plays a key role in determining the
choice of career of an adolescent.
• Career planning. It entails the selection of
appropriate steps necessary to meet specific
career goals.
• Career development. Hansen in 1976 defined
career development as a lifelong process
dedicated to finding out and processing
information regarding one’s identity, the
educational and occupational opportunities and
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Personal Factors Influencing
Career Choices
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PERSONAL FACTORS
Environmental/
Biological
Social
Intrinsi Extrinsi
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Ideal
Career
Self-
concept
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External Factors Influencing
Career Choices
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External Factors Affecting Career Choice
Parental Available Skills and Job
Wishes and Opportunities Mismatch
Preferences and Economic
Demands
Life Situation
Career
Financial Gender Counseling
Difficulties Stereotyping
Culture and
Values and
Physical Peers
Religious
Environment
Beliefs
Career Options
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Career Guidance
In deciding what course to
take and what career to
pursue, it is important to
seek the counsel of the
people around you.
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