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Foundations of a healthy relationship[1]
- 1. Foundations of Healthy RelationshipsCooperation and Compromise
- 2. Bell Ringer (5 min)Describe your relationship (s) with your siblings and/or closest friends. How do you get along? How do you work through disagreements?Keep journals out!
- 3. RelationshipsRelationship: a bond or connection you have with other people.
- 4. Friendship: a significant relationship between two people that is based on trust, caring, and consideration.
- 5. Citizenship: the way you conduct yourself as a member of the community.Sandra Bullock Video Clips (10 minutes)Sandra Bullock is just one person, but she has played many different roles. Is that true for all of us?
- 6. Do we all play different roles in the relationships we have throughout our lives?
- 7. Do the roles we play ever change?The Roles we PlayRole: a part you play in your relationshipsExamples of the roles I playMrs. Day’s RolesRoles Mrs. Day Plays Now:Sister
- 8. Daughter
- 9. Wife
- 10. Mother
- 11. Friend
- 12. Student
- 13. Teacher
- 14. Aunt
- 15. Church member
- 16. Community member
- 17. CousinRoles Mrs. Day has Played Before:EmployeeGirlfriendFiancéTeam captainTeam memberClass presidentClass memberVolunteerSomeone’s dateTutorCare-giver/ Pet-owner
- 18. Skills for building relationshipsCommunication: the exchange of thoughts, feelings, and beliefs between two or more people.Cooperation: working together for the good of all.Compromise: a problem-solving method in which each participant gives up something to reach a solution that satisfies everyone.
- 19. Two “C”s of Healthy RelationshipsCooperation and CompromiseCheaper by the Dozen: Movie Clip (12 min)
- 20. Relationship Bank Account (RBA)We have a different bank account with every person we have a relationship with.
- 21. The quality of our relationships depends on how many deposits and withdrawals we make in each account.
- 22. When there are significant “funds” in our bank accounts, an occasional withdrawal will not damage the relationship.
- 23. Minimize withdrawals and make generous deposits on a regular basis.Relationship Bank Account (RBA)Examples of Withdrawals:Not listening
- 25. Not keeping a promise
- 26. Forgetting a friend’s birthday
- 27. A sarcastic commentExamples of Deposits:Understanding what’s important to themRemember the little things
- 28. Tell the truth
- 29. Sense the need and do it
- 30. Open up
- 31. Use the most important words“I Do Care” Activity (page 93 in Page book10 min
- 32. Take out a piece of paper 1. Make a list of the most important people in your lives.2. Write down ways to show these people that you care about them.3. Write a list of things that you do that might make these people feel like you don’t care about them.Make a conscious effort to increase the ways you show these individuals in your life that you care!
- 33. Ingredients for a Healthy RelationshipSelf RespectRespect for Others
- 34. Respect for OthersListen to other peopleBe considerate of other’s feelingsDevelop mutual trustBe realistic in your expectations
- 35. Traits of Healthy RelationshipsMutual Respect
- 36. Treat others with respect and they respect you in return
- 37. Accept each other’s opinions, tastes, and traditions
- 38. Accept each other’s differences
- 39. Don’t force your opinions on each other
- 40. Caring
- 41. Treat others with kindness and consideration
- 42. Show empathy and support
- 43. Willing to help others
- 44. Honesty
- 45. Honest and open with others
- 46. Don’t conceal your thoughts, feelings, or actions
- 47. Commitment
- 48. Contribute to the relationship
- 49. Work to keep the relationship strong
- 50. Make sacrifices for the friendship
- 51. Deal with and overcome problems in a positive wayUnhealthy BehaviorsStereotyping: making an exaggerated or oversimplified judgments about people who belong to a certain group.
- 52. Prejudice: an unfair opinion or judgment of a particular group of people.
- 53. Bullying: deliberately harming or threatening other people who cannot easily defend themselves.
- 54. Hazing: making others perform certain tasks in order to join the group.