Building Emotional Inteligence
Prof. Kibet PK
Machakos University
Introduction
• Building emotional intelligence (EI) is a valuable skill that
involves understanding and managing your own emotions as
well as being able to recognize and influence the emotions of
others.
• Remember that building emotional intelligence is an ongoing
process that requires practice and self-reflection.
• By developing these skills, you can enhance your ability to
navigate social interactions, build stronger relationships, and
achieve greater overall well-being.
• This video gives you some strategies to help you enhance your
emotional intelligence
Strategies to Enhance Emotional Intelligence
1. Self-awareness
• Reflect on your own emotions and try to understand their root causes.
• Pay attention to your reactions in different situations.
• Practice mindfulness to stay present and aware of your emotions.
2. Self-regulation
• Develop the ability to control impulsive behaviors and manage your emotional reactions.
• Practice relaxation techniques, such as deep breathing or meditation, to stay calm in
challenging situations.
• Set realistic goals and maintain a positive attitude.
3. Motivation
• Identify your personal and professional goals.
• Stay focused on your goals even in the face of setbacks.
• Find intrinsic motivation by connecting tasks to your values and interests.
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4. Empathy
• Practice active listening to understand others' perspectives.
• Put yourself in others' shoes to appreciate their feelings and experiences.
• Cultivate a genuine interest in the well-being of others.
5. Social skills
• Develop effective communication skills, both verbal and non-verbal.
• Build strong relationships by expressing empathy and understanding.
• Resolve conflicts through open and constructive dialogue.
6. Observation and awareness
• Pay attention to non-verbal cues, such as body language and facial expressions.
• Be aware of the emotional climate in a given situation.
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7. Continuous learning
• Seek feedback from others to gain insights into your emotional intelligence.
• Learn from your experiences and adapt your behavior accordingly.
• Stay open to new perspectives and be willing to grow emotionally.
8. Cultural sensitivity
• Understand and appreciate cultural differences in emotional expression.
• Be open to learning about and respecting diverse emotional norms.
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9. Positive relationships
• Cultivate and maintain positive relationships with others.
• Build a support network that encourages emotional well-being.
• Offer support and encouragement to those around you.
10. Conflict resolution
• Learn constructive ways to resolve conflicts without escalating emotions.
• Focus on finding solutions rather than assigning blame.
• Use effective communication to express your needs and concerns.